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Anthony Santen

S.A.C. Dip. (Adv. Psychotherapy) MCH CLC NLP

Are you ready to transform your relationship into a rewarding partnership?

Are you struggling to get back what you put in to your marriage? Is the bliss becoming a chore? Do you know what your partner needs? Does your partner know what you need? Have you considered divorce? Are you considering cheating your marriage?

Marriage counselling is the tool you need to create a new, functioning marriage for you both. But not all marriage counsellors use the same approach. You need to find the counselling that gets you where you want to go.

Instead of marriage therapy that ends up in complaining about each-other, wouldn't you rather learn how to create a working relationship where both partners communicate openly and feel accepted and respected?

When you come to work with me (alone or your partner), I keep you (both) focused on creating solutions that work for you both and are in harmony with how you want your relationship to be. This is a time-proven approach that brings people together and creates safe, loving, respectful people to a new understanding of each other and the relationship.

My goal is to create rapid change to keep you interested and motivated, yet comprehensive enough so you can continue to work together in the future, without the use of a therapist.

In just a few sessions, you learn the key parts that help you turn your relationship around. This approach to marriage counselling helps you understand why you react to the same things and why your partner repeats the same behaviour, over and over. And how to make it work again, without compromising each other's individual personalities.

Do you want a relationship that lets you feel safe and nurtured while supporting your growth and providing a home for your heart? Rediscover passion in the marriage, the joy and emotional safety and acceptance that comes from a healthy relationship.

One of my clients recently wrote: "Thank you Anthony for this and everything else. When my husband got home, a huge shift had occurred. There was an openness that has not been there ever before. Clearly nothing I have said or done has been able to make that happen. But you did it. I don't have words to express my gratitude to you for helping both of us"

How it works

My approach is different than typical marriage counselling as we work together to create the marriage you want without spending much time discussing who was wrong, settling arguments etc.

Together, you discover the true differences in approach between the masculine and feminine in the marriage, discovering and meeting each other's needs, how to rekindle a loving sex life, communicating effectively, rediscovering trust, overcoming hurt, etc.

Your whole first session is completely free of charge and without obligation. Its worth the time to come and talk over a cup of tea. (alone or together)