Before You Confirm Your Fee Assessment
This is not just a formality. It's your opportunity to pause—and make sure you're stepping into a process that truly fits where you are right now.
The work I do is not traditional therapy.
It’s not a space to vent or emotionally unload. It’s a space for clarity, ownership, and deliberate change. That difference matters. In this process, we won't stay in the past. We’ll look at your patterns, your emotional habits, your blind spots—and begin shaping what happens next.
This work may not be for you yet if:
- You’re still in the immediate emotional aftermath of betrayal or trauma
- You need a space to be heard and validated before you’re asked to change
- You’re hoping I will align with one partner as “right” or act as a referee
- You’re looking for traditional couples therapy, long-term narrative work, or emotional processing support
This work is for you if:
- You’re ready to hear things you haven’t heard before—about yourself
- You’re willing to take ownership, not just assign blame
- You’re open to confronting entitlement, resentment, or protest in yourself
- You’re interested in structured, forward-moving work that holds both partners equally accountable
- You’re not looking to be fixed—but you are ready to do the work
Why This Matters:
Some couples leave the first session feeling raw, not because they were shamed or blamed—but because the process was more confronting than expected. Others leave relieved, finally seeing what’s been driving their pain—and what they can do about it.
This moment is here to protect you from entering something you’re not ready for, or that isn’t designed for your current needs.
Your Options:
✅ Proceed With Informed Consent
If what you’ve read sounds aligned—even if it’s a little scary—you’re likely ready. Click Confirm My Assessment below, and we’ll move forward together.
❌ Pause or Bow Out Gracefully
If you realize this isn’t the right space for you right now, that’s okay. You can step back without judgment or consequence. I’m happy to offer referrals to support that fits where you are.
Intentional Relationship is not about being perfect.
It’s about being honest—with yourself, and each other.