Marriage Counselling

- Have you considered divorce?
- Are you considering cheating your marriage?
- Is the bliss becoming a chore?
- Do you know what your partner needs?
- Does your partner know what you need from the relationship?

Are you ready to create a healthier, more co-operative and fulfilling relationship?

"Everything else seems secondary when your relationship isn't working"

Laura (& Brian) H.

Marriage counselling is meant to be the process that transforms relationships to spiritually fulfilling, blissful partnerships for both partners. Unfortunately, couples look for marriage counselling once they're struggling; after the marriage is in trouble. While deep down you want to get back to the relationship you envisioned for your life Resentment, Intolerance and Anger have taken their toll on Romance and Intimacy. Now your relationship is filled with disagreements, escallation and unfulfilled needs. Communication has broken down and it looks as if the relationship is spiralling out of control.

Approach

As you might imagine, not all marriage counsellors use the same approach. Some focus on creating understanding and compromise, others treat the relationship as two individuals who need a referee to tell them who's right and who's wrong or what's acceptable or unacceptable behaviour in a relationship.

My approach is to empower both partners. To explore deep-rooted healing of the factors that plague a relationship. Without this fundamental shift in approach, solving the core issues in the relationship becomes an impossible task. Once these core issues are solved, finding ways to empower the partner is easy and rewarding, giving them the motivation and resources to focus on your needs.

Do you know what you want from your relationship? Are you ready to discover your best relationship yet - with your current partner? What if it requires some relationship work - and what if it is a worthwhile investment into your relationship (and ultimately yourself)?

Instead of marriage therapy that ends up in complaining about each-other, wouldn't you rather learn how to create a working relationship where both partners communicate openly and feel accepted and respected? 

"After 10 years, my marriage is a sanctuary of peace for my heart, and I've never felt this level of intimacy with my wife - Thank you !!! Its better than I imagined when we got married!"

David (& Jenn) S.

When you come to work on your relationship with me, I keep you (both) focused on creating solutions that work in harmony with how you want your relationship to evolve. I focus you on what you ultimately want - and how to get there. Rather than waste your time on being a referee in a competitive relationship, I bring you into a rewarding, mature and intimate relationship that empowers you with the skills and tools to co-create a lifetime of intimacy, fulfillment and growth. I provide a time-proven approach that brings people together and creates safe, loving, respectful partners in a new understanding of the other and the relationship. It helps you create a relationship where you can feel safe and validated; a place you can be yourself and be loved for who you are.

My goal is to create rapid, comprehensive change and keep you curious and motivated along the way. My mission is to empower you with the skills and tools to work on your own relationship, well into the future; after you've completed your sessions. Typically within 6 months, we right the ship and confidently set a course for a relationship you want to be part of, without needing to rely on further sessions over an extended period of time.

In just a few sessions, you learn the key parts that help you turn your relationship around. Then we create a space where we can eplore why you've been reacting the way you have and why you and your partner repeats the same behaviours, over and over. Our aim is to create a space were you can discover who you are, without being subject to your partner's judgment or correction; a space where you can feel accepted for who you are.

Do you want a relationship that lets you feel safe and nurtured while supporting your growth and providing a home for your heart? Rediscover intimacy and trust in the marriage, the joy, emotional safety and acceptance that comes from a healthy relationship.

One of my clients recently wrote on Google Reviews: 

My approach is different than typical marriage counselling as we work together to create the marriage you want without spending too much time discussing who was wrong (in the past), settling arguments, etc.

Together, you discover the true differences in approach between the masculine and feminine in the marriage, discovering and meeting each other's needs, how to rekindle a loving sexual intimacy, communicating effectively, rediscovering trust, overcoming hurt, etc.

Cost of marriage counselling: Your first session is discounted by 50% and without obligation.
Full discretion assured.

Anthony Santen SAC Dip(Adv. Psychotherapy) Counselling in Toronto

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